My new mantra is, “Someday, I will miss this.”
With my constantly expanding belly and to-do list, it is my way of reminding myself to Stop and Smell the Roses, so to speak.
For instance:
When they are both fighting to sit in my lap while we eat lunch, I try to remember that someday they won’t want to be seen with me – nevermind cuddle.
When they are hitting “repeat” on the CD player and listening to Pachelbel’s Canon in D for the 700th time while they dance around the living room, I try to remember that someday Delaney will play that song at her wedding while I huddle under a table sobbing uncontrollably.
I’ll write more examples later. Right now I have to go figure out why things are suddenly eerily quiet…
At any rate, saying “Someday I will miss this…someday I will miss this…someday I will miss this,” seems to be much better than screaming “SERENITY NOW!!!!” which is what I was doing before.